Parents shouting from the sidelines. Heated arguments with referees. Over-the-top celebrations. We’ve all seen it. But what happens when the adults are the ones forgetting about sportsmanship? Ironically, the kids often handle the pressure better.
A recent study found that 70% of kids quit organized sports by the age of 13— and you have to wonder, how much of this is due to the behavior of adults?
What do you think about adults learning sportsmanship from their kids? In this article, we’ll explore how young athletes are setting the example and why it’s time for parents to follow their lead!
The impact of parental behavior on youth sports
We've all seen it—a parent shouting at the referee, berating their kid for missing a goal, or losing their temper after a tough loss. While emotions run high, this behavior has a bigger impact than most parents realize.
It's not just about embarrassment or frustration in the moment; it can kill a child's love for the game entirely. When parents push too hard or lose control, it creates a toxic environment where kids feel pressure instead of passion. The result? Burnout, anxiety, and a serious drop in confidence.
Why kids often display better sportsmanship
Ironically, kids often show more grace under pressure than the adults cheering them on. Children are taught from day one that sports are about teamwork, effort, and respect. They get excited when they win, but they also know how to shake hands after a loss and move on.
For them, it's part of the game. Many kids are simply there to have fun, improve their skills, and enjoy time with friends. They’re not obsessed with winning at all costs, which allows them to embrace the true spirit of sportsmanship. It's when the adults project their own expectations that things go off course.
Lessons parents can learn from their children
Parents could take a few notes from their kids when it comes to learning sportsmanship:
- First, the emphasis on effort over results is a huge one. Kids understand that sometimes you win, and sometimes you don’t—and that’s okay
- Adults can learn to appreciate the small victories: improvement in skills, increased teamwork, or simply the joy their child gets from playing
- Another big lesson? Respecting the game, the referees, and the opponents. When children see their parents react calmly to a tough call or a loss, it teaches them resilience
- Finally, parents need to remember that the game is about the kids, not them. Taking a step back and letting their child experience sports in their own way can lead to healthier, happier young athletes
Final thoughts on learning sportsmanship from kids
Hopefully we’ve demonstrated how parents can actually learn valuable lessons in sportsmanship from their kids, shifting the dynamic from overly competitive to supportive and respectful, creating a better experience for everyone involved.
Please note that any advice shared here is general in nature, and we recommend checking in with a professional in regard to your child’s needs.
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